Dear Future, it’s not you, it’s me.
You make me feel so good that I hadn’t realised how toxic our relationship had become.
You always had a talent for seducing me, giving me just what I wanted.
But in hindsight, I’ve realised I wasn’t getting what I really needed: no sense of belonging, meaning, or anything beyond the next cheap thrill.
Of course, I loved the excitement; you know I did. But, in hindsight, I feel a little guilty about the things we did together. I think we pushed things too far, too fast.
I wish I could have that time over; and make different choices. But the clock only turns in one direction, so I’m learning to let go of that guilt.
But I’m also letting go of who I imagined we would be together. The flying cars, hoverboards, and holidays on the moon were a figment of a failing vision.
I realise now that you are too high maintenance for us to continue. You can’t give me what I need, and I can’t give you what you demand. I never could, but liked to think otherwise. I did enjoy the fantasy, but it’s over.
I’m not quite sure where I’m headed now, but I’m not going to rush into anything. I’m going to find the time and space for a more beautiful connection to emerge.
Yours in sadness and hope,
Tim
Tim Frenneaux is a regenerative business designer and radical economic strategist. His work focuses on turning this challenging moment into a catalyst for a better future, advocating for change and encouraging forward-thinking leaders to take action.
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